Here one interesting story of how one came to realize that “Attraction Isn’t a Choice”, and how to use this concept to dramatically improve your success with women.
when a person used to believe that being a “nice guy” was the way to make a woman like you, and that if you were “nice” and she didn’t like you, that it was probably just because she didn’t think you were handsome enough or whateverDoesn’t it make sense that a woman should be attracted to a guy who treats her well, is attentive, buys her gifts, etc.?
It creates consistent brains. A person started to notice a few things that were happening in the Real World.Some Real Facts:
1) Women would tend to break up with a person, play hard to get, and not be happy and satisfied when he treated them “overly nice.”
2) His friends looked to be getting all the attention from the girls rather than women.
3) The most popular male “sex dating” tended to be guys who were mean, fighting, abusive “bad guy” types.
A person tried about every system to “meet women dating that has been created. But there always appeared to be something. One day a person was talking to a friend that he had met about how to meet women. This friend to a realization that was a key to understanding the idea of “attraction.”
A person began to recognize that:
1) Through “choice, Attraction isn’t happens. In other words, a woman doesn’t start talking to a man and doesn’t think she will feel attracted to him
2) For men attraction generally happens in reaction to a beautiful face and an attractive body. For women it usually happens for other reasons like does happen on occasion for physical reasons alone, Singles dating.
3) Attraction does have much logic. You have to learn techniques to increase logic of Attraction.
4) When a woman feels ATTRACTION to a man, she will do things that seem to be completely illogical, irrational, and even against dating.
As a matter of fact that once you learn this set of behaviors that “pushes the attraction button” inside of women, you will start to see that women actually KNOW when they are dealing with a man that understands this principle.
Here are a few ideas to practice:
1) Use the magic formula of COCKY+FUNNY. Make jokes about her trying to pick up on you, tease her about something she is insecure about, and make fun of others… just make sure it’s making her laugh.
2) Spend more time with her. Just teasing a woman just like you might do with a family member. This gives you confidence and you will feel comfort.
3) You communicate with her in the way that confidence, control, and superiority. You have to progress very slowly and confidently with good feelings.
4) Don’t do things like buying drinks, giving compliments about beauty, or drama of need her. In the beginning you must keep cool attitude and act like as she is the lucky one who catch you.
You have to remember that beautiful women are being approached by guys who are kissing up to them so you have to become different. You must be doing jokes but not stupid, don’t become over confident that you appear insecure, and most importantly totally in control of yourself and the situation.